So it’s Friday the 13th of
December – oh no what bad things are going to happen today? I must admit that,
like many others I am a little superstitious. I don’t think I am obsessive about
such things but I will always choose to walk around rather than under a ladder;
if I spill salt I will always throw a pinch over my right shoulder; if I break
a mirror I’m worried about seven years bad luck, you know all the usual little superstitions
that we have been brought up with. Therefore, I have to say that I am always
most pleased when Friday the 13th has come to an end and I have
escaped unscathed!
According to the Mirror News, one third of
Britons will change their normal plans and routines when the 13th of
a month falls on a Friday. Just over one third of adults (34%) say they would
prefer to have a duvet day, and not even leave the house, whilst a whopping 72%
of adults say they have experienced bad luck on this date. It is widely known
that many, many people refuse to travel, will not make big purchases (like
signing a business deal or completing on a house sale), get married or hold important
meetings on Friday 13th. It’s not just in Britain either, The Stress
Management Centre and Phobia Institute in North Carolina, states Friday 13th
is the most feared date in the history of the USA. It is estimated that
millions of dollars of business are lost each time the 13th falls on
a Friday! There is even a name for the phobia of this
date – paraskavedekatriaphobia,
bet you didn’t know that!
So why are we all so afraid that bad things
are more likely to happen on this date than any other? There is not one
particular answer to that question. Many people believe it is that historically
the number thirteen and the day Friday have been seen as unlucky, and so, when
you put them together you are in for double trouble! Christians will point to
there having been thirteen people at the last supper, and it was the thirteenth
person to sit down, Judas, who went on to betray Jesus. Jesus was then
crucified and put to death on a Friday. Others suggest it goes even further back
in the bible, to the Garden of Eden, when the forbidden fruit was eaten on a
Friday. And let us not forget that Cain was supposed to have killed his brother
Abel on a Friday.
Another factor may be that it is said in 1306
King Philip of France had the revered Knights Templar arrested and tortured on
a Friday, giving more evidence that Friday was an evil day. And let’s not
forget that most hangings in Britain were carried out on a Friday, and traditionally
there were 13 steps up to the noose! As if this wasn’t enough there are also 13
witches in a coven – wow it is a wonder any of us survive this awful date!
It is true that the superstition
surrounding the number 13 is so strong that many high rise buildings do not
have a 13th floor (they jump straight from 12th floor to
14th). Also some hotels don’t have a number 13 room as their owners believe
customers would not want to stay in there. Just as an aside I once lived in a
street of houses that did not have a number 6 – I never got to solve the
mystery of that either!
There have been a number of small studies
carried out that suggest that there are more accidents and admissions to
hospital when the thirteenth of the month falls on a Friday. Could this be yet
more proof that it is a bad date, or are we just so fearful of having an
accident that we act in a different way? Personally, my logic tells me that
Friday 13th is no more unlucky than any other date, I think I am a reasonable
person who can think things through to a logical conclusion and I know fearing
one particular date is not sensible. However would I move house, get married,
start a new business or book a flight on Friday 13th – to be honest probably
not!
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